One thing I’ve loved about being deep in my CFP® studies is how often my thinking gets challenged.
Not in a “you were wrong” way, but in a “you’ve been taught a simplified version of this” way.
Recently, one of my CFP mentors brought up something that stopped me in my tracks:
Roth IRAs were never meant to be worshipped.
And once you see it, you can’t unsee it.
What My CFP Mentor Said (That Changed My Framing)
In many financial spaces, Roth IRAs are treated like sacred objects.
Never touch them.
Protect them at all costs.
Dying with the biggest Roth balance = winning.
But from a true planning perspective, that mindset can actually limit people.
My mentor framed it this way:
A Roth IRA isn’t a trophy. It’s a tool.
And planning isn’t about preserving one account type, it’s about coordinating all assets to reduce lifetime taxes and increase flexibility.
That distinction matters.
How CFPs Actually Think About Roth Money
In real financial planning conversations, Roth accounts are often used strategically, not emotionally.
They can be used to:
• Cover large or irregular expenses without creating taxable income spikes
• Keep income low enough in certain years to avoid jumping tax brackets
• Reduce health insurance costs by preserving Premium Tax Credit eligibility
• Smooth cash flow during early retirement or lower-income seasons
In other words: Roth money gives you control over your tax picture.
Not using it ever can be just as inefficient as overusing it.
How I Want You to Think About This
Here’s the reframe I’m carrying forward and teaching:
Good money decisions aren’t about protecting accounts.
They’re about protecting your flexibility.
Instead of asking:
“How do I never touch my Roth?”
Try asking:
“In which years would Roth money give me the most leverage?”
That question leads to better sequencing, calmer decisions, and less fear around “doing it wrong.”
Why This Matters for Nurses (Especially)
For nurses, income is rarely a smooth upward line.
PRN work. Career breaks. Travel contracts. Burnout seasons. Early semi-retirement. Entrepreneurship.
Roth accounts shine not because they’re untouched, but because they’re there when income is uneven.
That’s not bad planning.
That’s intentional planning.
What I’m Learning (And Unlearning)
One of the biggest shifts in my CFP journey has been moving away from rules and toward reasoning.
Less:
“Always do this.”
“Never touch that.”
More:
“What does this decision do to your lifetime taxes?”
“What does it preserve for future-you?”
That’s the kind of planning I’m committed to teaching.
Not fear-based. Not rigid.
But thoughtful, flexible, and grounded in real life.